Wednesday, September 28, 2005

498 - I want to fight

Dear all,
My story is no different than anyone who has gone through or is going through the injustice of 498. I have read and spoken to a lot of people and every time i hear their plight, it reminds me of my own situation.

I'm not going to write what has happened; we all have read about it multiple times and know the pain first hand. I simply want to fight back.

Some things I have thought about:
* Lets get an activist group together in every city possible who will start protesting in front of the girls house as soon as a false complaint is made. This will give the guys troubled family hope if nothing else that there are people who believe that the injustice in done to them and not the other way round. It will also dampen the will of the girl and her family.

* Lets get some financial aid and free legal counsel for those who need it.

* Lets find ways to protect the job of the husband so at least he has a means of supporting his family.

* Lets discuss ways of how we can counter attack within the limits of the law. Maybe we can slap on them a case of extortion and blackmail. Maybe something even bigger.

* Lets try finding legal counsel ways to get bail or expose loop holes if there any under 498 which everyone can use to protect themselves and their family.

I'm trying to come-up with a step by step guide for people who are new to this world and find out the hard way what they should have done the moment anybody even whispers the word 498.

I know from my own experience that had I known a few things earlier I could have protected my family in a much more efficient way. All ideas are welcome, please write what has helped you in your process and I'll compile the final list for everyone.

"You don't drown by falling in the water; you drown by staying there."— Edwin Louis Cole

Best Wishes to all,
Virodh

45 Comments:

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Blogger CruiserDeep said...

If you fear/know that a flase 498a complaint is going to be put on you :-

1. Immediately file the RCR, if your wife is separated from you(Restitution of Conjugal rights is like saying"I want my wife back(who deserted me), but with the following conditions"- but since the wife's intention itself is wrong, she won't be able to agree to those conditions(u can even make the conditions more difficult and impossible, to make sure that she will not come back) , it is similar to divorce petition only thing the paryer the same will be asking court your saftety , avoid harrasement , balckmailling .
2. File a police complaint mentioning Blackmailing , threat for false dowry case , or any other thing you have the evidence for. Do not forget to mention that she had left the house after taking a lot of jewelery and cash in your absence, as the case may be. This will a Non Cognisible complaint(police won't take any actoin without investigation, and investigation also seldom happens, this is just for you to submit the threats in writting, and document- any 498a complaint after this will be viewed with enough suspicion, tahts the point)
3. Recording all the conversion if any(telephone recording devices, or miniature recording devices when in person discussions happen).
4. File a criminal case in court under 156(3) under read cr. procudure 200 , with reference to police complin .(these are sections in the Code of Criminal procedure(Cr.P.C in short), 1973, reproduced alongside:
Cr.P.C Sections
156. Police officer's power to investigate cognizable case
(1) Any officer in charge of a police station may, without the order of a Magistrate, investigate any cognizable case which a Court having jurisdiction over the local area within the limits of such station would have power to inquire into or try under the provisions of Chapter XIII.

(2) No proceeding of a police officer in any such case shall at any stage be called in question on the ground that the case was one which such officer was not empowered under this section to investigate.

(3) Any Magistrate empowered under section 190 may order such an investigation as above-mentioned.

200. Examination of complainant
A Magistrate taking cognizance of an offence on complaint shall examine upon oath the complainant and the witnesses present, if any, and the substance of such examination shall be reduced to writing and shall be signed by the complainant and the witnesses, and also by the Magistrate:

Provided that, when the complaint is made in writing, the Magistrate need not examine the complainant and the witnesses-

(a) if a public servant acting or purporting to act in the discharge of his official duties or a Court has made the complaint; or

(b) if the Magistrate makes over the case for inquiry or trial to another Magistrate under section 192:

Provided further that if the Magistrate makes over the case to another Magistrate under section 192 after examining the complainant and the witnesses, the latter Magistrate need not re-examine them.

5. Take the certified copy from the court and keep with you .

Now just relax and whenever you come any place for disussion , just submit the court petition and say whatever you feel right do it , they are the criminals , you are not .

This will definitely ensure easier bail for 498A , which is the main problem .

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Blogger saveindianchild said...

Latest Update: Haramzdhi's Group so called Deshi Critics or Deshi Cowered writers/blogers dirty face get exposed due to the Voice of Kush "Why 498A can't be applicable for both Mum and Dad ?".

They all get scared and lost thier Night Sleep.

As a Result they thretened to Ban the Name of Kush in thier Group otherwise they will Chop off the Balls of DC Editors/Moderators. At the end the Editor surrender in the Hand to Haramzadhi Feminist writers/blogers and Baned the Name Kush.

"#15
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Fight between Child Killer vs Child Saver will Continue till the time all those Haramzadhi will not be behind the bar for Killing the Child/Child abuse/forcing a child to live under single parenting system.

Save Indain Child form Haramzadhi Feminist group, if you you have some social responsibility , otherwise continue your money earning business through Legal Terrorism in India.

We do not want part time Fathers every night basis...

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